Birmingham Classes
AMY RAINER- FOUNDER AND TEACHER OF MOUNTAIN BROOK CLASSES
As founder of “Etiquette with Amy” and a former classroom teacher, Amy has a passion for partnering with parents to help foster confidence and respect in their children. Amy is beginning year 27 of teaching etiquette classes in her home in Mountain Brook, Alabama. She has recently launched “Sincerely Yours Etiquette” and helps others begin their own etiquette businesses in other cities!
Current Offerings
All fall 2026 class spaces are filled in Mountain Brook classes. If you are interested in a space for a single registrant, please email Amy and she will add you to a waiting list and look for a space for your child (make sure to include child’s gender and grade as of fall 2026)! If you are interested in forming a class for winter 2026 or fall 2027, please CLICK HERE to reach out to Amy!
Amy is thrilled to introduce her “Mini Manners” classes for 4K/5K boys and girls! These classes are ONE TIME interactive classes and will meet for 45 minutes in Amy’s home. Each mini manners class will focus on a single topic. You’ll receive a printed resource to help with “at home” practice!
August Topic Focus: Interacting with a Grown Up (eye contact, strong voice, friendly words, confidence and a smile). Each child will have the opportunity to practice these elements when meeting someone new.
September Topic Focus: Being Good Friends at school or on a playground. We will practice including others by inviting others to play in existing groups., and we’ll also practice approaching groups and asking to join.
October Topic Focus: ***Halloween Fun*** We will practice complimenting our friends’ Halloween costumes, saying “thank you” after receiving trick-or-treat candy, and answering in a clear strong voice when someone speaks to us.
November Topic Focus: Tiny Turkey Table Manners. We will focus on FIVE easy ways to show good manners at the table.
December Topic Focus: Gratitude Each child will have the opportunity to practice opening a gift and "stretching their thank you". We will practice eye contact and saying "thank you" in a more meaningful way. We will end with a game to see who can say "thank you" before being reminded!
Class dates will be announced at the end of July. If you’d like to be notified when class dates are released, please send your email address to Amy at etiquettewithamyrainer@gmail.com.
Are all classes at capacity? CLICK HERE to be added to the waiting list.
This is a great place for your child to begin, but it is also a great class to take if your child missed the foundational classes. This class has a “Junior” version (recommended for 5-7 year olds) and a “Senior version” (recommended for 8-10 year olds). During this 3 week session, Amy will focus on some of the very basics of polite behavior and helpful attitudes! Boys and girls will learn how to make a good first impression, how to be a good friend, how to be helpful and how to be a grateful receiver of gifts and compliments. The senior version will add in important topics like practicing kindness in everyday situations, using good manners in sports, and the importance of learning how to write a meaningful thank you note. Children will learn all of these things in an interactive environment where each child has an opportunity to role play desired behaviors. Each child will leave with a take home card highlighting some of the topics discussed so that parents can follow up with more discussion at home each week. Checklists are included so children can monitor their own progress.
This class can be adjusted for boys and girls ages 5-10 and is a great choice, as the content is relevant for all elementary students!
Please note…after you register you will receive another email to use a code to “authenticate your order”. Please disregard that! NO need to authenticate! I will reach out personally to confirm that I received your registration.
NOW REGISTERING:
Sundays, October 4, 18 and 25 from 4:00-5:00 pm (KONTOMITRAS group)
If your class choice is full, CLICK HERE to be added to the waiting list.
During this 3 week session, Amy will focus on some of the very basics of table manners and etiquette! Students will review how to make a good first impression, how to be a good friend, how to be helpful and how to be a grateful receiver of gifts and compliments. Our main focus for this series will be table manners. Students will learn how to set a table, how to order with a clear strong voice, how to use a napkin and many other essential skills to be a pleasant companion at the dinner table! Children will learn all of these things in an interactive environment where each child has an opportunity to role play desired behaviors. Each child will leave with a resource guide highlighting some of the topics discussed so that parents can follow up with more discussion and practice at home each week. Checklists are included so children can monitor their own progress.
This class is adjusted for boys and girls ages 5-10 and is a great choice, as the content is relevant for all elementary students!
Please note…after you register you will receive another email to use a code to “authenticate your order”. Please disregard that! NO need to authenticate! I will reach put personally to confirm that I received your registration.
NOW REGISTERING FOR:
Sundays, August 16, 23 and 30th from 4:00-5:00 pm (This is a “pre-arranged” group for TOLBERT)
Sundays, September 13, 20 and 27th from 2:45-3:45 pm (This is a “pre-arranged” group for STATHAM)
Sundays, October 4, 18 and 25th from 1:30-2:30 pm (This is a “pre-arranged” group for LEWIS)
Sundays, October 4, 18 and 25th from 2:45-3:45 pm (This is a “pre-arranged” group for LEWIS)
Are all classes at capacity? CLICK HERE to be added to the waiting list.
A Conversation Skills Class
CLASSES OFFERED FOR GIRLS IN GRADES 1, 2 AND 3
We all need to learn how to accept compliments, share the spotlight, and use a social filter. Topics are covered in "kid friendly" terms so that the students are entertained and engaged as they learn the art of conversation.
Three week session
Please note…after you register you will receive another email to use a code to “authenticate your order”. Please disregard that! NO need to authenticate! I will reach out personally to confirm that I received your registration.
NOW REGISTERING:
Sundays, August 16, 23 and 30th from 2:45-3:45 (pre-arranged group for MARLBROUGH)
To schedule something for fall 2026, please CLICK HERE to reach out to Amy.
*If the class you’re interested in is “Sold Out”, CLICK HERE to put your child on the waitlist.
Etiquette Classes for Young Ladies
Classes offered for girls in grades 3 or 4
Some of the topics covered include the following: Good Posture, First Impressions, Proper Sitting and Standing Positions, Self-Confidence, How To Properly Set a Table, Table Manners, Use of Each Utensil, Courtesy in Public Places, and many more! Girls who take this class in 3rd and 4th grade may register for "Goodness and Grace, Part 2" in 5th, 6th, or 7th grade, as the curriculum builds upon itself.
In addition to three week's of instruction, a Sunday afternoon tea party will conclude this session.
Three week session + tea
If all classes are at capacity, CLICK HERE to put your child on the waitlist.
Please note…after you register you will receive another email to use a code to “authenticate your order”. Please disregard that! NO need to authenticate! I will reach out personally to confirm that I received your registration.
There are no additional sections of this course on the schedule for spring 2026. To schedule something for FALL 2026, please CLICK HERE to reach out to Amy.
Some Basic Rules of Etiquette for Gentlemen
The Perfect Gentleman, Sr. - for boys in grades 4, 5 or 6
Material will be adjusted based on the age range of each class, but some of the topics covered include the following: self-confidence, introductions, chivalry, first impressions, integrating kindness into every day interactions, courtesy in public places, table manners, use of each utensil, and conversation skills. While boys who take "Part One" in 2nd or 3rd grade may register for "Part Two" when they are age eligible, new students are welcome to enter at any point during their elementary years!
Three week session
Now Registering for Goodner/Mouron class on Sundays, September 13, 20 and 27 from 4:00-5:00 pm.
Please note…after you register you will receive another email to use a code to “authenticate your order”. Please disregard that! NO need to authenticate! I will reach out personally to confirm that I received your registration.
*If the class you’re interested in is “Sold Out”, click here to put your child on the waitlist. If a spot becomes available, I will let you know.
Some basic rules of etiquette for 2nd and 3rd grade boys
Material will be adjusted based on the age range of each class, but some of the topics covered include the following: self-confidence, introductions, chivalry, the proper way to extend and accept an invitation, courtesy in public places, table manners, use of each utensil, and conversation skills. Boys who take "Part One" in 2nd or 3rd grade may register for "Part Two" when they are age eligible, as the curriculum builds upon itself.
Three week session
Currently Registering:
Sundays, August 16, 23 and 30th from 1:30-2:30 pm (FOWLER group)
Sundays, September 13, 20 and 27th from 1:30-2:30 (CYRIAC group)
Please note…after you register you will receive another email to use a code to “authenticate your order”. Please disregard that! NO need to authenticate! I will reach out personally to confirm that I received your registration.
*If the class you’re interested in is “Sold Out”, click here to put your child on the waitlist. If a spot becomes available, I will let you know.
Etiquette Classes for Young Ladies
CLASSES OFFERED FOR GIRLS IN GRADES 5 and 6
We will take an in depth look at a few of the topics covered in the beginning etiquette class, but we will also focus on topics relevant to Tweens. These include the following: advanced table manners (including table conversation), use of each utensil (including proper holding, cutting, and resting positions), self-confidence, body image, communication skills, thank you notes, cell phone manners, and many more! In conjunction with our self confidence and body image lesson, girls will enjoy a skin care and make up lesson by an esthetician from Village Dermatology.
Three week session
Please note…after you register you will receive another email to use a code to “authenticate your order”. Please disregard that! NO need to authenticate! I will reach out personally to confirm that I received your registration.
*If the class you’re interested in is “Sold Out”, click here to put your child on the waitlist. If a spot becomes available, I will let you know.
CLASS OFFERED FOR GENTLEMEN IN GRADES 5-7
This session will focus on fine tuning some of the table manners that were taught in "The Perfect Gentleman" courses. The first week, students will meet in Amy's home for further instruction on the proper ways to hold utensils, proper cutting techniques, appropriate table conversation, how to pay a bill and calculate gratuity, and how to treat servers with respect and courtesy. During the second week of this session, students will join Amy for dinner in a white tablecloth restaurant where instruction can take place in an authentic environment.
*Because the skills taught build on each other, one of the "The Perfect Gentleman" classes is helpful (but not required) for this class.
Once your group has been accepted for a space in Amy’s program, the group will decide whether you’d prefer 2 separate days of instruction or a one time workshop. Due to the busy schedules of these little gentleman, the exact dates are scheduled the month before the class.
I teach ONE Dining Out class per month. If you have a group of 7-9 boys and are interested in forming your own class for FALL 2026, click here to email me of your interest.
*If the class you’re interested in is “Sold Out”, click here to put your child on the waitlist. If a spot becomes available, I will let you know.
NOW REGISTERING:
Monday, February 9 from 3:45-5:00 pm AND Tuesday, February 10 at Daniel George Restaurant from 5:45-7:00 pm
OR
Monday, February 9 from 3:45-5:00 pm AND Wednesday, February 11 at Daniel George Restaurant from 5:45-7:00 pm.
***While this class appears “Sold Out”, REGISTRATION for this ONE TIME WORKSHOP opens on Sunday, July 12 at 5:00 pm**
In this SPECIAL class, Amy will help your child enter new environments with confidence as she teaches them the 5 components of a POSITIVE first impression. In addition, she will talk about friendship skills as we begin a new school year. And if that’s not enough, we will discuss how to be a helpful member of a family and how to show initiative in the mornings before school. Each child will leave with printable reminders of the lesson AND a gift for their teacher on the first day of school! Once registered, Amy will reach out to each parent for input as she customizes each child’s “initiative checklist”!
Classes will be held at Amy’s home on Sunday, August 9th.
Classes are limited to 14 students in each group.
Saturday, August 8th
Rising K-2 from 10:00-11:00 am
Sunday, August 9th
Rising K/1st from 2:00-3:00 pm
Rising K-3 from 3:30-4:30 pm
*If the class you’re interested in is “Sold Out”, CLICK HERE to put your child on the waitlist. If a spot becomes available, I will let you know.